I thought I would post something a little different this week. For my Mother's Day gift, I told my husband that I wanted him to take a photo of my son and me. I found the spot, handed over the camera for once, adjusted the settings and let him have control. I even had THE image in my mind and I knew
exactly what I wanted.
This is what my husband took:
and I love it.
At some point in your child's life, they'll be searching for a photo of you and them that they feel a
connection with. It may be a planned one like mine-or candid. Doesn't really matter. Just make a point to take one now and again. Hair down or up, smiling or not, overweight or not. Just take some together- each child with mom, each child with dad- not just a big family group shot. One day they'll be so happy you took the time, handed the camera over, makeup or not, hair fixed or not, posed or not.
I post this because I feel sad when the majority of parents don't want to be photographed with their children because they are not comfortable for one reason or another. I would love a childhood photo of just me and my mother like this- or even something candid and fun of just us. She was always the one taking the photos in our family. Nevertheless, time goes by and you wait to lose that weight, get your haircut or buy the outfits for the session and it just doesn't happen. When I'm at a session, I always stress the importance of taking just a couple at the end with the child. They will love it someday.
It doesn't have to be
perfect at all.